Stay at home mothers can be VERY annoying!?

first of all, i am a stay at home mother, so i feel i can say this. i also remember a time when i wasnt a mother. some stay at home mothers seem to forget that they are still mature intelligent women and all they seem to care about is diaper genies and finger painting. i am a feminist, and as a feminist i believe that women have CHOICES, because for so long we didnt have a voice in society. if a mother wants to stay home with her children, that is wonderful. but if a women decides to go back to work after having children, she shouldn't be judged and told that she is a bad mother. women's thoughts, education, and ambitions should not have to stop just because she is a mother. i love my little girl, but i also like having adult conversations too!